Making Time For What Matters (MTFWM) was developed to help artists, crafters, makers and other creatives pursuing their dreams and aspirations live a successful and intentional life.
It’s about living a life we find meaningful and fulfilling — as well as promoting and selling our work.
- Do you want to increase your sales and profit from your creative work?
- Do you want to sell your work online?
- Do you want to develop a creative life you love?
- Do you ever find yourself exhausted at the end of the day but don’t feel like you actually accomplished anything? (Of course, you have. We all have.)
- Do you want to live a life of growth and integrity, aligned to your personal values?
Maybe social media or all those “success” webinars make you feel guilty for not wanting to be a Kardashian-clone or planning your own IPO. Are you looking for more support and practical techniques you can actually apply? Maybe you simply want to make a comfortable living that leaves you enough time for your family or to spend three months hiking the Highlands or develop your artistic craft.
I’m here to tell you that’s okay. It’s okay to want something different. It’s okay to pursue a life that matches your own values, a life of integrity and authenticity.
I’m also here to tell you —
You can achieve your dreams and
you want to start now.
Don’t let people tell you should do something “practical” or “commercial” or “useful” or “productive” with your time and your life.
And no matter where you are in your lifetime, it’s not too late — or too early — to pursue your dreams, aspirations, and goals. You simply need to know what they truly are and prioritize your time and actions effectively.
That’s where Making Time For What Matters comes in.
At MTFWM you will find —
- a planning and time-management system that, if followed, guarantees you will do something productive on your goals each and every day,
- free resources, tools, and tips following developing your creative business and your personal growth,
- inspiration and support for your creative efforts, and
- practical, effective information for promoting yourself and your work, both online and off.
The Story: Two Lists and a Vision Board
In 2014 I was clearing out, cleaning out, and downsizing after several years where I felt shipwrecked from one storm after another. And while I wasn’t sure what was next, I felt like I’d gotten my hands back on the rudder and could guide myself to a safe harbor — once I figured out where I was going!
On the door of my bedroom was a giant Post-It listing my various goals for the past year in areas such as health, finances, career, and personal development. I hadn’t looked closely at the list for months. I’d forgotten what I’d written. But reading the list over before tossing it I was astounded to discover I’d accomplished most of the goals, and the ones I hadn’t achieved were ones where I’d changed my goal. Apparently, my eyes and mind had absorbed the goals as I passed the list each day, even without my consciously reading them.
On the wall by my desk I’d hung a vision board I’d created three years before, and as I took it down later that day, I realized I’d accomplished or clarified all of the aspects of my life represented in the collage. I was even heading to Europe as soon as I put the house on the market! A dream deferred since college.
The final whack upside the head by the universe was coming across a list I’d made in my 20’s of all the things I wanted to accomplish in my life. Learning to juggle? Check. Write and publish a book? Check. Be a professional performer? Check. Study at Oxford? That’s where I was heading next! In fact, over 80% of the list could be checked off! Many of the remaining items were things I no longer valued. A few things were no longer possible because the world — and I — had changed.
My mother died at forty-two of a heart attack. She had two dreams throughout her entire life — graduate from college and visit Britain. She died three months before receiving her bachelor’s degree and starting law school. The University of South Florida granted her degree posthumously based on the draft of her dissertation I supplied and the recommendations of her professors. She died knowing she would be graduating. But she never saw Britain. It was always going to happen later — after my father’s business was established and she was no longer needed in the office, after I graduated high school, after she graduated college, after she got out of law school, after…
On that list of things I wanted to do in my life that I’d written in my 20’s was “study at Oxford” and “punting in Oxford.” As I floated down the Cherwell with a friend giving me my first punting lesson, I mentally crossed both off my list.
I’m now working on those remaining items. Starting with Making Time for What Matters and my new art career.
Please join me.
“You may ask yourself, well, how did I get here?
Letting the days go by, let the water hold me down
Letting the days go by, water flowing underground”
— “Once in a Lifetime” by Talking Heads (1981)
(Yes, “Once In a Lifetime” by Talking Heads was a cutting-edge video when released in 1981. And, yes, I’m old enough to have watched it on the fledgling MTV.)